Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Real Ways to Live
Sometimes people may try to bully you if they sense you are vulnerable - they are bullies - walk away, and never waste time trying to impress them.
Stop looking for the approval of others. Its a trap and a snare.
You are your worst critic, STOP judging yourself, and the world won't judge you.
Have faith in your own ability, and when you meet someone, ask lots of questions about them.
Don't always be on the defensive. Be willing to admit when you have done something wrong because it really isn't the end of the world. Everyone makes mistakes. Go ahead and apologize. Then MOVE ON.
How to Be Yourself and Be free
Being fake is ugly. Just don't do it.
Don't worry about what people think- they're not as interested in you as much as you'd think. They are probably worrying about themselves more!
Take a deep breath Break that focus you're locked into where all you can imagine is yourself.
When someone criticizes you, don't take it unless it's constructive. Think of the wittiest response you can, and if possible, twist their words against the accuser in a tactful manner. For example, if someone asks you a malicious question, respond "Don't worry about it". Don't be mean. That's what they want.
Don't think someone is better than you. You have so much to contribute, and whether you do or not marks what kind of a person you are.
Change your self talk from negative to positive. Say "I am a very confident person". Repeat this as often as you can, any time of the day. Find other affirmations that will help boost the way you feel about yourself.
Surround yourself with people that make you happy. Being around negative people only drags you down.
Love yourself. Accept reality. Be bold and know that you'll only move in one direction and that's forward.
The moment you look past the flaws(which everyone has) is the moment you accept who you are.
Try not to please and impress others instead focus on the activity at hand.
Carry yourself gracefully.
Look in the mirror each day and say "I love you" out loud to yourself.
Stay true to yourself.
Remember "Always be the first rate version of yourself, instead of a second rate version of someone else" ----Judy Garland.
Don't worry about what people think- they're not as interested in you as much as you'd think. They are probably worrying about themselves more!
Take a deep breath Break that focus you're locked into where all you can imagine is yourself.
When someone criticizes you, don't take it unless it's constructive. Think of the wittiest response you can, and if possible, twist their words against the accuser in a tactful manner. For example, if someone asks you a malicious question, respond "Don't worry about it". Don't be mean. That's what they want.
Don't think someone is better than you. You have so much to contribute, and whether you do or not marks what kind of a person you are.
Change your self talk from negative to positive. Say "I am a very confident person". Repeat this as often as you can, any time of the day. Find other affirmations that will help boost the way you feel about yourself.
Surround yourself with people that make you happy. Being around negative people only drags you down.
Love yourself. Accept reality. Be bold and know that you'll only move in one direction and that's forward.
The moment you look past the flaws(which everyone has) is the moment you accept who you are.
Try not to please and impress others instead focus on the activity at hand.
Carry yourself gracefully.
Look in the mirror each day and say "I love you" out loud to yourself.
Stay true to yourself.
Remember "Always be the first rate version of yourself, instead of a second rate version of someone else" ----Judy Garland.
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